F : After many years of hard work by John and more recently Olive Oyl and Popeye, you have turned this blog in to a cheap bitching rag sheet, revealing your own personal problems disguised as being a national problem.
Is that what you believe John McHaffie had in mind when, during the phone calls regarding the many computer problems he was experiencing from attempts to hack the blog, you volunteered to help
him with his computer problems? John spoke with and had many friends, but we never heard him put women down or refer to them on this blog with any four letter words or in a degrading manner.
You
complain about American women, yet you don't admit to the faults of many
American men, including yourself. Want to know why some women turn away from some men? Watch what comes out
of your mouth, including all manner of disrespectful four letter words. Watch your attitude. And don't profess 'Christian' when you are anything BUT. Lies will always be exposed.
A male would be well advised to take regular/daily showers, brush your teeth and use mouthwash, use deodorant and wear clean clothes and shoes so he doesn't stink. Comb your hair and beards. Clean the crap from your beards. Don't chew tobacco and drool down your beards and spit in empty pop cans. In short, don't smell and look like big foot - or worse.
A male would be well advised to take regular/daily showers, brush your teeth and use mouthwash, use deodorant and wear clean clothes and shoes so he doesn't stink. Comb your hair and beards. Clean the crap from your beards. Don't chew tobacco and drool down your beards and spit in empty pop cans. In short, don't smell and look like big foot - or worse.
Clean your transportation and the place where you live - inside and
outside. No woman wants to live in or be around filth.
A woman isn't interested in
being your personal maid service or personal prostitute. Women are not made to be your personal toys
to f**k. If you want
a woman who is nothing more than a sex slave, then find one at your local hangout - topless club - IF you can get one
to respond to you.
Women have feelings and can love and care for others in a multitude of
ways, but they don't like to be manhandled and rushed in to a bed or on the floor
to be used for the male's gratification and then tossed aside with no real concern for her. And for sure most women are not interested in dirty smelly filthy slobs for sex.
The reason most foreign women will
marry an American man is because they believe the fairy tale that the American
male is successful and has allot to offer the woman by her coming to America -
a nice clean home in a nice area, a nice clean car, the money to purchase
clothing and to take care of the children when born. Then, when they get here -
and are guarded like they are in a prison and not allowed to return home to be
with their families - the anger comes forth and the battles begin. So, instead of taking care of your own personal issues to improve yourself, go ahead and seek a woman in a foreign country and see how well you succeed there.
It would appear that you and friends have similar standards. What are your living conditions like? It would seem you may be one of those who wants to be a mountain man or frontier
man out in the woods? Perhaps a bit aggressive even to the point of destructive or abusive? No woman wants to live without plumbing, or
toilets or showers, no running water, no heating and air conditioning, and living out in the sticks with no one
to talk to or transportation to get away. Most women agreeing to live like that passed
with the demise of the wagon trains.
As a whole, women are not deceptive - any more then you men are. Women have had to learn to be self reliant because many men don't take care of the family and home business responsively. Some of that is picked up from their own upraising, some from irresponsibility - not working or spending money on wine, women and song, and some from just being AHOs.
A woman being feminine is what attracts you men. You want the women to be clean, attractive and responsive but stupid and able to be easily manipulated for your personal gain. If you have had several 'relationships' and none have succeeded, instead of blaming the women - take a good long honest hard look at yourself. No woman - any more than a man - wants a thug or a selfish, lazy, dirty, smelly, bossy demanding or stupid man in her life. Easier to be alone than to become some male's maid and personal prostitute.
If a man cannot 'trust' a woman, WHAT would be the cause behind that? The very issues already mentioned here? Is that her fault, too? Or could it be that the male isn't presenting himself in a responsible, caring and loving manner? Or is not able to provide what she is looking for in a permanent relationship, in particular taking financial responsibility for the children? She may feel insecure and that perhaps she has made a terrible mistake?
We live in a country that fortunately still offers multiple choices, including to be able to choose to leave a 'relationship' that is not providing what each is looking for. Give the other person the freedom to leave if she wants to. You will both be much happier for it. In the meantime, take a long hard honest look at yourself and admit to whether you are what a woman would want in her life. Misrepresenting your lifestyle and choices is only misleading others who read what you post - but the savvy can see through that. In the meantime, this blog is being destroyed. We grieve for that and for our friend John, and we grieve for OO and PE who served faithfully for the benefit of all the readers.
As a whole, women are not deceptive - any more then you men are. Women have had to learn to be self reliant because many men don't take care of the family and home business responsively. Some of that is picked up from their own upraising, some from irresponsibility - not working or spending money on wine, women and song, and some from just being AHOs.
A woman being feminine is what attracts you men. You want the women to be clean, attractive and responsive but stupid and able to be easily manipulated for your personal gain. If you have had several 'relationships' and none have succeeded, instead of blaming the women - take a good long honest hard look at yourself. No woman - any more than a man - wants a thug or a selfish, lazy, dirty, smelly, bossy demanding or stupid man in her life. Easier to be alone than to become some male's maid and personal prostitute.
If a man cannot 'trust' a woman, WHAT would be the cause behind that? The very issues already mentioned here? Is that her fault, too? Or could it be that the male isn't presenting himself in a responsible, caring and loving manner? Or is not able to provide what she is looking for in a permanent relationship, in particular taking financial responsibility for the children? She may feel insecure and that perhaps she has made a terrible mistake?
We live in a country that fortunately still offers multiple choices, including to be able to choose to leave a 'relationship' that is not providing what each is looking for. Give the other person the freedom to leave if she wants to. You will both be much happier for it. In the meantime, take a long hard honest look at yourself and admit to whether you are what a woman would want in her life. Misrepresenting your lifestyle and choices is only misleading others who read what you post - but the savvy can see through that. In the meantime, this blog is being destroyed. We grieve for that and for our friend John, and we grieve for OO and PE who served faithfully for the benefit of all the readers.