Wednesday, January 29, 2014


It would be an understatement to say Bob Marley
broke the mold.

He was a very unusual man with a strange way of
thinking... but every now and then his unusual way
of thinking revealed a powerful truth.

I stumbled across this Bob Marley quote...

It's kind of odd, but I'll let you judge it for yourself: 

"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, 
she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't 
give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ...

The truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just 
gotta find the ones worth suffering for."

- Bob Marley

I had to read it twice before I fully digested the

It was that last sentence that really got me.

Something inside of me wanted to argue against his
claim that "everybody is going to hurt you." 

I guess the optimist inside me didn't want to
believe that...yet I couldn't find a way to deny

"Everybody is going to hurt you." 

That sucks! 

I don't want to believe that! 

Yet, my experience as a dating coach has proven
this to be true. 

The strongest, most beautiful relationships are
built on solid foundations... but I can't think of
one that did not involve a rocky period of time... a 
time when one or both partners suffered with the 
kind of pain only your true love can inflict.

But there's a silver lining! 

The second part of Bob Marley's last sentence says
love is about finding the special person who is
worth suffering for.


There's power in that.

The beaming optimist within me started cheering as
I thought about what this really means. 

It means when you have found true love, you must
not give up. 

And that's something I can believe in. 

Very few things can make me cry, but joy is one of

And there's no joy greater than that of two lovers
who have rekindled a spark that refused to die... a
spark that now warms the hearts of everyone who
witnesses the roaring flame of their love.

Wishing you the very best, 

James Bauer

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