LIFE AND DEATH, GOOD AND EVIL, BAD TIMES AND GOOD TIMES.

There is a simple way to live a good life and a way to be in a bad life.

It all becomes plain to see, in how you feel around a person, place or thing.

There will be people coming in to your life that when you are with them, you will enjoy their company, feel good around them, feel relaxed and safe, etc.. or just not feel bad at all.

Then you will meet the people that will make you feel bad in the pit of your stomach, make you feel that you were insulted, cheated or robbed and mal-treated,  and make you feel that you need to leave them far behind, but you may be trapped because they just might be related to you or married to you or they may be your own friends, church, government, business or family.

Inside of you, you have what is called  physiological reactions, these are your warning signs that you were born with as a survival mechanism.

Here is where your soul gives you help. I say soul, instead of heart or mind, because it comes from way deep inside of you that no heart or mind can tell you to run or stay. This instinct of self-preservation comes from millions of years ago.

There are times when we can't change anything, but we can move away and leave them far behind. Yes that may mean that you may need to leave that so-called friend or relative that loves to give you destructive criticisms,ROBS YOU OR HARMS OR KILLS YOUR PETS, steals from your own mother, gives insults and good advice that puts you down or permits others to do bad things to you. There a thousand ways to hurt someone, while making others think you have the face and smile of an angel. but in fact have no soul or a every dark and evil one.

The secret of a good life is to be around people that are called: helpers, HEALERS,  savers, and people  that really love you, or just people that are a joy to be with or that the more you are around them, the better your life becomes.

A HEALER IS A LIFE SAVER, YOU CAN ALWAYS TELL BY YOUR OWN RESULTS. To have one as a friend is to survive better than most. A bad relative or fake friend is a destroyer and in time your life results will tell you or show you.

Find the good people, good friends and good relatives in your life and keep them near you. Discard the shit heads no matter who they are and that way, you can also survive better than most.

REMEMBER THIS -- WORDS MEAN NOTHING BUT HOT AIR. ALWAYS CONFIRM RUMORS AND DOUBLE CHECK EVERYTHING, BEFORE YOU BREAK AWAY FROM GOOD PEOPLE. LIARS GIVE THEMSELVES AWAY SOONER OR LATER. EXPOSE THE BAD AND RETAIN THE GOOD IS THE BEST FORMULA.

In life, it is NOT the place that is bad, it is a person that is the "bad" that is affecting you. But even though the people are good, they may be doing bad things to others that will affect you even worst inside.

What they do or not do to you, must be compared to what they do or not do to others around you too. Especially to people that love you. If they treat people that love you bad, they are betraying you too.

A great friend or relative may make you feel good and be fun to be with, but he or she might be stealing from your family, or your real friends, disrespecting, destroying, insulting or hurting your family or real friends or pets in some way. To defend that fake friend or bad relative, is to betray the people or family or pets that have always loved you, and that have always cared for you all your life. The hardest lesson to learn, is to know who to love and who not to love back, if loving them betrays your own soul and God.

So, this is true about life, it is not always how you feel about a person, it is always what they bring into your life and take away from your life. To betray, hurt, harm, destroy your family or real friends for a lover or boy-friend or girl-friend and lose a parent, guardian, protector or the one that has taken care of you for all your life, is to betray everything that is good about love and life.

The lesson on LIFE AND learning ABOUT PEOPLE  first comes from knowing that people lie, cheat and steal and only think of themselves. You can ruin your life by having these kind of people near you, no matter how good you feel around them BECAUSE THEY WILL TREAT you great just to use you. Then in time, you will lose them too and be alone, because you hurt the ones that really loved you. NEVER HURT THE ONES THAT REALLY LOVE YOU AND HAVE PROVEN IT ALL YOUR LIFE.

Life is simple when you can spot a fake or a false friend or relative and separate from them before they do more harm. Take your loses and go on and learn from your mistakes.

Life is a process in learning to tell how good you feel. Sometimes a government like ours is socialist and is killing us, but your life is not bad or you don't notice how really bad it is and/or how good it could be. That only means that your ability is limited to your vision to not see the harm it does.

Maybe, it is best to relocate to another country or leave that man or woman or relative or friend and go far away.

The thing to do is change your environment as quickly as you can to increase your survival and good life.

People have eyes but can't see, have ears but can't hear, have noses, but can't smell the BS, have senses but can't understand their own emotions and have brains but can't think about what they are doing or letting others do to others that will affect your life.

So here is the path -- follow your instincts and just try your best to feel safe, good, happy and well cared for. That is the start to a better life. It is said that it is better to be alone than be miserable.

That should only be a temporary solution until you find a better or real good: mate, friend, business, family,  or country. Sometimes when your own family is full of bad people, your next love-mate might have better relatives than the ones you left behind.

A great Life, love, and happiness is not hard to find, if you don't betray yourself or permit others to betray your survival.

survival is having people that really love you in the past, present and future, and will always be here today and tomorrow.

You can always find another lover, but a lover can cheat on you or a friend or relative may betray you and then he or she has no more value. But it is hard to find good relatives, real friends or people that will always be here for you.

BETRAY THEM AND YOU BETRAY YOUR PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE SURVIVAL.

~Loyal Patriot